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20 Rules for Girls
20 things guys wish girls knew. If you want to know what guys are really thinking and want...
1. Movies/soap operas are not reality; relationships won't be easy or fun all the time. Relationships (and people) may start off exciting, but the excitement wears off. Notice how most couples barely converse after the first few months lol.
2. Dating is a game. Guys know the cardinal rules to 'getting' girls are: "tell her what she wants to hear" and "sound exciting till you have her then do/say whatever you want. Don't be serious, negative or argue...but once you get her, do it all you want". I'd rather someone who shows the real them upfront.
3. Men don't want a girl that they have to spoil and take out everyday; the world isn't going anywhere and money doesn't grow on trees, which is why guys secretly prefer going Dutch. Marilyn Monroe (who girls idolize) was divorced 3 times for a reason.
4. The most important thing: Girls want a Man? It goes both ways; Men want a Lady. If you curse too much, drink like a fish, if you're a fighter/fight fan, are ripped: no thanks (guys who don't care just want friends, or they're guys who fantasize about being dominated by a girl.) Girls want dominant/aggressive Men, and men want submissive/pacifist Ladies. Girls say 'equality' (yet expect the man to pay and be chivalrous) but if men did girlie things, girls would run too. There's a reason why traditional relationships lasted, why the divorce/infidelity rate has jumped, and why many men go abroad to find a partner.
5. Many girls think it's all about them. It's okay for girls to yell, be shallow, cheat, flirt, be dirty...but guys are jerks if they do it. Many girls don't realize that men have emotions too, and need affirmation too. No double standards, it goes both ways.
6. Why are many guys jerks? Because being nice gets them rejected (it's funny because no guy likes being a jerk). If you really want that challenging bad boy then you only have yourself to blame when you get hurt; you won't change a jerk. There's no such thing as a bad boy with a good heart, permanently. Acting bad ass= Insecure.
7. If a guy cheats, hurts you, doesn't pay attention to you, isn't ing or won't be affectionate/romantic, it's because he's not into you (men who love their women think about her all day and will show love anywhere). Guys get controlling because they're scared of losing the girl; they know girls tend to run when things get hard, boring, or when they ladies seeking casual sex Littlestown meet a more fun person. You can't expect to be with one person forever and never be bored, angry, upset, meet other people. But it's ed "commitment" for a reason.
8. Physical attraction is important but looks fade and the more you get to know someone the more attractive they become. Having a hot body (or fancy degree/car/job), doesn't make you better or smarter. You see tons of handsome guys dating unattractive women, but rarely see a cute girl dating an unattractive guy.
9. Too many girls are anal about height. Girls don't like being judged by sizes, well guys don't like being judged by height (people can't control height). Short girls demanding tall guys ('heels' excuse) is lame, imagine if a guy rejected you for having small cleavage. Being "Tall" doesn't make you a Man, just like having a big chest doesn't make you a Woman.
10. Traditional couples lasted because they shared everything/were partners in life, man was man-woman was woman, they sacrificed for each other, and family came before jobs and money. They also got involved for real, unlike nowadays where many get involved for status, sex, money and put jobs/money first.
11. Men are simple people who want simple life, whereas women are complex (complex= complicated). Men can tell if they like/want you right away, whereas women over-analyze. Men tend to be Realists, whereas women tend to treat everything like a joke (til they hit 40. Notice how it's the moms, wives, female bosses/teachers who are the more serious/strict ones). Girls give guys all the benefit of the doubt, whereas guys don't give girls any. Girls hold grudges, whereas men get over it.
12. Girls are attention seekers but dressing/acting provocative, skimpy at gym or clubs, or high maintenance; you're only attracting pervs and jerks. Life isn't a runway contest, and real men want "classy".
13. It's not all about sex? All guys know if you give a girl great sex you can treat her like dirt and she won't leave; and if a guy isn't good at sex the girl runs (instead of teach. This is why guys secretly have performance anxiety). Sex is human nature though, it's nothing to be closed minded about. People will drink, smoke, fight...but sex is bad? This 'std risk' is a media scare; I've hooked up with 31 girls in the past 4 years and I'm clean.
14. Girls aren't very approachable around friends. And if friends don't like the guy you're dating, so? You're dating him not them. Don't let others dictate your life (friends come and go). Saying you'd die without your friends makes you sound insecure/dependent.
15. Girls can't stand guys who judge, whine, are clingy, too nice, mama's boys, gamers, political...yet they like guys who are drunks and controlling lol. Girls say "at least jerks aren't whiny"...well yeah, because they're jerks and still get girls. Truth is, all guys get controlling and tempers sometimes; it's a guy thing.
16. Girls don't care what anyone thinks? No, they care too much. Girls want honesty? No, they want to be told what they want to hear. Girls don't like drama, being controlled, games? No, they love it. Girls won't change? For a guy they really like, they'll change anything.
17. Too many listen to everything others tell them instead of thinking for themselves and using common sense (and those who stick to values tend to get overlooked. If you don't stand for anything, you'll fall for anything). Try quitting the party/bar, chaos scenes or say "No" when others try to push you into something and see how many of your friends stay around. Notice how most girls on dating sites and most who have relationship problems are the party/bar/chaos types. The funniest thing about party/bar types is: That's all they do with their life. Must be stress; I don't know about you but I didn't go to college so I could work like a slave.
18. First dates are supposed to be awkward, you're hanging out with someone new. People shouldn't judge so quick or make date rules; we all get nervous, have flaws, issues, baggage...its natural, just be you. And ladies, no "hard to get" games...huge turn off.
19. Saying these are a turn off: "I like to have fun, laugh, try new things!"...really?! "Live everyday like it's your last! Life's too short to be unhappy! Live/Laugh/Love!"...who actually does all that? "Don't take life seriously!"...even though girls freak out, whine, judge and dramatize more than anyone. "Don't bother messaging me if..." whoa, chill the F out.
20. Men just want a girl who is a "Lady", and wants the simple life, is caring, realizes we have flaws, needs and emotions too, realizes it won't always be fun, isn't dramatic and has common sense. Sounds easy, but there's a reason why many of you are still here. Regardless, you can still attract guys, just not the good ones who will last. What's the point of a relationship if you're not going to last? Relationships aren't temporary flings.
So who wants to be my gf? :D
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