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LTR
How does one distinguish them self from the tons of postings listed on CL and find a quality person? I choose honesty. That I believe is not easy to find on CL or even general dating sites. First, I am not looking for sex. Hopefully some day and often. But I need to find my friend I can feel safe with. Okay, Honesty. I am frightened down to my socks. I have been alone for a very, very long time and I have become comfortable in the the rhythm of my safe life. And yes, I am growing tired of it. When I get home from work and being social all day, I feel like a prairie dog sticking my head in and out of a hole being shy and safe. I am not looking to surrender my entire life to someone. At least at this point. I need and want to find that person who makes sense in my head. I seek their friendship. I am low maintenance. I do not need activities 100% of my free time. I appreciate down time. I want more social fun. I am low in life experiences. I want to experience more. I am employed and pay my bills. I am a parent. I have a place to live and a vehicle to drive. I am self sufficient. My life is relatively calm and drama free. I cook, clean, shop and can take care of my life. Not looking for someone to take care of me. I am not handsome, but I am not butt ugly. I take good care of myself and there is no beer belly here. My heart is sweet and generous. Some things important to me? Being as healthy as can be as long as possible. Decent eating and exercise habits. Because it is an intelligent choice and I am a guy, yes, I like an attractive woman who takes care of herself. I will be checking you out, often. A woman who wants to feel and be sexy with the right person. I do not drink, but it is okay if you do. I do not smoke, but I can understand some social smoking. No drugs unless prescribed by a doctor. I am a decent and kind guy. No tats or motorcycle. I am responsible and believe in honesty. It has been a while, but I am romantic, ( been a while, but very romantic). I am also also passionate and behind closed doors seek that special woman who has a good balance of feminine lady.... and not so lady like and I promise not to tell anyone. A mixture of respecting today, what you have achieved and how people view you and the private where you let your hair down and want to be a woman with a man. I seek what we all seek. The person who makes sense and gives you a feeling of home inside. Happiness, laughter, sharing, support and the warmth inside your heart knowing they are in your life. Because this is CL and I know if I get any responses it will be 99.9% spam and hookers I will not open any response unless it says Me Too in the subject line. I hope to get a solid email from a special person.
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