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Whip smart
For me, Dominance and submission is far more than the practice of "different" loving, or authority over one's lover. It is a state of mind and heart which colors the whole partnership. It is a bridge of energy between lovers that unites them regardless of the issue of the moment. It is a path into the deepest intimacy with another soul.
I am a loving, intellectual, responsible, experienced dominant man, seeking a long-term, monogamous, kinky relationship based on chemistry and collaboration, not merely fantasy. sea-gray eyes, I seek a very intelligent, articulate, charming, talented, graceful, lovely, precocious, submissive girl, slender to average build, and petite to average height, preferably with a noticeable figure.
This gal seeks to make an impact on her Master and the world with her life and talents. She grows by self-reflection and action. She devours new knowledge, wisdom, and experience. She desires and is capable of sustaining a long-term relationship, hopefully life-long.
On the surface, I'm a charming, eloquent, well-dressed, lovably quirky fellow. I have streaks of self-doubt. With friends and family I'm both curious and revealing. I'm a bit intense, but I love to find the humor in all situations, including my own nature.
With my love I'm present, intuitive, directive, creative, firm, kind, sadistic but safe, vulnerable, fair, ferocious. My standards are very high, for each of us, so I'm also demanding. When I fall in love, I rarely fall out of it.
I try to be self-aware, of my strengths, weaknesses, and quirks alike. I'm an almost-hopeless romantic, so I can be a bit cynical to balance it. (I'm full of intriguing contradictions.) I am single, a non-smoker, an occasional drinker; I am in excellent health, exercise often, and never use drugs.
I love partner dancing, philosophical conversation, theatrical-quality tomfoolery, walks in the city and country, absorbing and pondering the universe together, and forging the deep bond with my love that only D/s BDSM play can.
The girl I collar will eagerly offer her submission whenever I desire it, and be a spirited but deferential companion otherwise. I enjoy the master/slave dynamic, but prefer easy kinship most of the time. Once the trust between us grows deep, we will mine the gemstones in the hot, dark, depths of human nature.
I love to write and correspond and discuss vanilla and D/s topics. I understand that a girl who is seeking a dom online is taking a risk in connecting with strangers. I will not press for more interaction than you are comfortable with, and I only reveal my dominant side to one whom I trust. Trust takes time!
Kindly make "whip-smart sub" the subject of your reply, so I know it isn't spam. And introduce yourself in writing... What makes you tick? What are your passions? What excites you about D/s kink? Your essential stats (age, ethnicity, body type, locale)? Why did my ad resonate with you? etc.
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SunnySide Up m4w
But being single sucks too..right? 
